Did you forget about it, or did you think it just was not important? I bet you learned fast that there is nothing worse than a woman’s scorn who has to remind you of the first-anniversary date.
And for all of us guys, let us stay out of the bottom of the barrel, by giving our special lady the night of her life.
Ah, the planning, and the secret of it all. Of course we just cannot keep quiet, and as guys always do, we ask for advice from our buddies. They all seem to know more about these things that we do. So why not use one of your lifelines and get some advice from your buddies?
Time of the Year
The time of the year can play a big part in where you go, but not what you do. And don’t think taking her to the football game, with a beer and hotdog are going to cut it.
It is time for the gusto, for the push over the hill, to raise the Titanic, and treat her like the queen that she is, with the treatment she deserves.
This is Not Something New
Treating a lady with absolute admiration and love is not something new. Guys have been doing this since Adam and Eve. We are the hunters and gatherers, and rival in that little bit of appreciation that we get when we do a good deed.
The first-anniversary date is no different. It is hunt and gather the food and present it for that little bit of admiration. Make her go hungry, and then watch out.
So, take the time to plan your anniversary date, where you are going to go, how you are going to get there, and what you will do after. It is a total commitment required for the whole evening. Just the two of you, doing something wonderful together, and to say the least, it will do well for the interpersonal relations.
What To Do?
Food is always good. There is never any way to go wrong with planning a great night out at a fantastic restaurant. Pick one of those that you would never otherwise go to. Remember, this is special and you want to show her that she is special.
Think about her favorite food, not yours. For most of us guys, it would be a visit to the local steakhouse, and we would be happier than a pig in poop. But, get your happy another way, by taking your loved one out to a fantastic restaurant where she would want to go, and you would never take her otherwise.
Plan ahead, have flowers on the table and with all these online reservation services now, you can get just about anything that she could have ever wanted.
What About the Ride
The pickup truck will not do, and neither will the car you use every day. Even if you clean it up, which may be the first time this year that is not good enough. This is about being special and treating her special.
Raise the game and hire a limo. Tell her you are taking a cab because you are going to have a drink and safety first. Just think how surprised she will be when there is a beautiful limo to whisk you and Cinderella off to the ball. If you live near me in Southern California my recommendation is hands down Best Riverside Limos.
Instead of going directly to the restaurant or event, take a small detour and try to get in a scenic drive and maybe stop and some sort of lookout point for extra special brownie points. Girls love watching sunsets or stars with the special someone and it’s an easy way to make the entire night an experience your favorite someone will never forget.
Don’t Forget the Little Things
And do not forget the little things. Do you normally hold the door open for her to enter first, or help her with her chair? Those are a couple of the little things that make a big difference.
At the table, why not sit beside her, rather than across the table from her? A table as a physical barrier always acts as a barrier.
And you left your cell phone turned off didn’t you? Nothing will kill a glorious date faster than having your cell phone ring and you answering it.
Remember, it is the little things that make the difference, and there is one more little surprise coming up that will blow her socks off if she were wearing some.
The Ride Home
Of course, it is in the same limo you arrived in. You were not a dummy and booked the limo one way, were you? No, you would not do that.
Again, continue to be a gentleman and let her in first.
Ride home in comfort and relish in the admiration of what has been and what is to come.
At Home and Ready for Bed
This is not a night, night story, but I have just one more surprise for you that will blow her socks off. Get into the bathroom before your princess and put the toothpaste on her toothbrush. Place the toothbrush down quietly and do not say anything.
You will get the most wonderful reaction, and it may almost make you blush.
End of Story – Good night.